After hearing all about this and seeing what a Major Chilul Hashem was brought about from this. We have to learn to make each and every member of Klal Yisroel feel welcome and if unfortunately when there are such cases of dysfunctional families and individuals who are not getting the right treatment.
(Based on her own words I see a major mental illness that went untreated). It could be no one was available to help her, but she fell through the cracks and now is taking out her frustrations about leading such a miserable life on her lifestyle which may or most probably didn’t cause her to be so angry and frustrated. She had no support and now in her words she feels supported. It’s so sad but it’s nebach on her and her son who’s not given a chance (with a mother like that it will be hard for him to connect to Chassidim -his extended family as well)
Many Chasidim I know are so happy and content. Their rules and stringencies are intense and are there to help them maintain and preserve their Chasidish lifestyle.