Sorry I missed most of the argument, but from what I see here, some ppl are missing the halachic difference between one who is not oseh masseh amchoh, so he would not be included in “amisechoh”, so there’s no issur to hate that person, versus one who may be very bad, and there may be many consequenses he may face by all of us, but is still included in “amisechoh”, so there no heter to hate that person. period.
And I’m still shocked and surprised that some clueless ppl would still stand up for a person who has took a vicious and humiliating step towards her own family, all frum yidden and am yisroel in general, plus against hashem and the Torah, she is definitely not included in “amisechoh”, and especially when she clearly states she’s not keeping the torah, she is only making fun of torah umitzvos. End of story.