Naysburg,
You said,
“Well, as more than one poster has clearly and amply enumerated, she is much worse than an abuser. We don’t determine this, Hashem did.”
This is (whether people here want to admit it in a public forum or not) what most Yeshivish people and their Rabbonim think is true. They honestly beleive that someone writing a book that denigrates their way of life is worse then a Child Molester and probably even a Murderer.
I would venture to say the fact that many Rabbonim are willing to speak out about the denier of women’s stockings, Concerts and same gender marriage while staying silent in the face of things that actually cause immense damage and pain to the people they are supposed to be leading shows that they have a similarly warped sense of morality.
…..I said what I had to say and now Im outta here!! not gonna have a whole discussion about this here!!!