avhaben -“This argument is going nowhere. Those who believe the Torah commands us to hate this meshumedes rasha DF, will not be convinced by those who think an abuser is just as bad as her.”
Sorry, I don’t think molesters are just as bad -I think they are worse.
DF will not cause anyone to go OTD, unless they are going that way anyway.
A molester will cause many people to go OTD!
Also, a molester causes other Frum Jews to sin because some end up protecting them. People who protect molesters are probably Oiver – Lo Saamod & Messaya L’day Aveira!