morahrach, curious why you would want to know.
actually, my wife works but would love to stay at home and care for our kids except other half is out of a job (but we are grateful at least she has a job)
my is stay at home mom and she commented how bored she is and that many of her friends also were stay at home moms, got bored so they put their kids in daycare and got jobs-when my wife heard that she was thinking bored? she would love to stay home! (of course, we did not comment on the relative’s feelings)