Reply To: How do you stop family feuds???!!

It’s soo hard to come to terms that this will be the reality for the next generations and it’s hopeless…sort of like I’m pouring my heart out and stressing myself to the core while no one can do anything about it!!

One time I was talking with my close friend and she said something bad about her sister-in law and I said your so lucky you have people to fight and argue with…she’s like huh?? I said your so lucky since my own cousins won’t even look at me!! And I spoke to everyone and I don’t know what caused it…she supported me and said I should re-approach them which I did and then as I said on a previous post it’s so hard…

I wish (I would give anything to get rid of this!!) I would even pay (any amount of $$$)them in order for my children to have a cordial life!!

One thing I know is that when people fight and argue they have a chance to resolve the issue but silence is so horrible it’s worse than anything else in the world.

Is the true answer to keep up the ignoring and disgusting behavior Or is there some hope left??

My husband can’t believe they can act this way and get away with it…He’s nice and loves everyone (that’s how he grew up)..I wish I can make peace!! Please tell me should I go to a mediator/social worker/Rav etc. to get them to talk it out???