Reply To: How do you stop family feuds???!!

I feel sorry for them, that’s the truth because they can’t get over/ out of stuff.

I spoke to a Rav and he told me that it’s basically out of my hands you can’t literally force someone to apologize to you or get someone who has issues (mindset) to change without them getting help.

But he did say (which I plan on doing) is to have a family meeting with your family and explain how not everyone behaves the way you would like them to and some people even your relatives can be dysfunctional (how do you tell that to a 9 yr old they wouldn’t understand)

–I need to think about how I am going to present it to my kids it’s going to be tough!!

What I gained from speaking to my Rav was venting and also how to cope and deal with dysfunctional people.

Did anyone have to do this or tell kids not to get hurt by someone’s behavior because adults don’t know how to act???!!!