I recently went to a chasanah that a cousin of mine made for her son. There was mixed seating. One great uncle of the chosson refused to come because of the mixed seating but another who is a well known choshiva Litvish Rosh Yeshiva (in his 70s) had no problem coming to join his niece’s simcha. While he is from the other side and not a relative of mine – he sat at the table with my side of the family and he and his wife engaged us in conversation. This is a Rosh Yeshiva from an extremely frum yeshiva and this man is considered a Gadol B’Torah and B’Midos by all.
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