simcha613, I am SHOCKED! You described yourself as the perfect reason why men shouldn’t be in the room with dancing women, at a wedding or bar mitzvah or anywhere. You go watch women dancing at your mixed weddings, and then come here to justify that by saying, eh it wasn’t so bad for me to watch the women dancing by my mixed weddings since it was slow.
Feh.
dunno, you can’t add another venue to encourage “the immature ones” to stumble. Especially with a venue that everyone goes to, rather than one where they have to go a bit out of their way to find trouble. You could also also “help alleviate the so called shidduch crisis and reduce stress levels of singles in shidduchim” by opening a bar or disco.