Helpful:
Explain how it gives more of an opportunity to sin. If anything, it’s the opposite. Upon the first meeting by a mixed event the couple is being watched by about 400 people.
mw13:
I have read all comments and responded. In college you tend to have girls starting from 18-19 and boys 20-21. Most have already gone to Israel and are ready to settle down and start a family. Where did you get it from that plenty are just looking for “fun”?
You also tell SJSinNYC that during the 3 hours by the wedding the boy and girl will form a bond so it’s likely to lead to sin. If that is the case, how are we allowing 2nd dates when going through a shidduch system? The first date tends to run for about the same amount of time if not longer.
In response to your last post, do you honestly think that when someone wants to get to know the opposite gender better it’s to sin?? No, it’s not tayvah. It’s called: “I got a good impression of this person. I want to get to know them better to see if we can maybe get married one day and raise a family together.”