Helpful, you are not supposed to have a chashash on someone for no reason. You are supposed to be dan l’chaf zechus. We do not presume people will sin every chance they get. We expect Bnei Torah to act as Bnei Torah. I guess I have more faith in them than you do. And by the way, in my circles it would be very hard to NOT know if one’s kids were misbehaving. When kids start sneaking around (and in homes where they are brought up to be open and are trusted) ANY parent can immediately tell when something is off with a child. I don;t know how old you are, or if you have kids, but whenever one of mine was up to something (when a child, of course) I immediately knew it. There is just a difference in that child,a look. Something. It cannot be hidden, when there is a normal relationship between parent and child.
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