Zees: Your assumption and statement that one either needs to be adding Chumros or he is “seeing how little they can hold of Mitzvohs and still be labeled a practicing Jew” is terrible. Such an attitude is divisive and leads to nothing but “I’m better than you” feelings and Sinas Chinam.
Ders: I proved a week ago that that’s obviously not true. There is a way to go too far. The question is how to define “too far”.