Those of us that are OTD, are not looking for patronizing niceness. All we want is to be accepted for who we are and allowed to work at our own pace so we can actually integrate what we should be accomplishing. We are the round pegs constantly being shoved and forced into the square holes. Sorry, but the more you push and shove, the more difficult it will get. Let us work out and we can get ourselves through.
Part of being accepted is being there for when we are willing to ask for guidance. We ask because we (finally) recognize that we are at a part of life we can’t go alone.
This I feel is actually a huge key help keep us from falling off in the first place.
*end rant*