@Kodesh: Your predicament is very common with newly married, especially in the Orthodox world. How long did you “date” your wife before you proposed? Was there much pressure for both of you to marry? Did you EVEN know what questions to ask? How old were you when you married?
I really don’t have have an answer for you, but I wish you much hatzlacha and take care of this/these issue(s) before they snowball.