Gefen- you seem to have made two different points above. First of all, you complain that men are looking for a “trophy wife”. Second you complain that they are shallow. While I agree with you that it seems shallow to demand perfect looks (although I have no idea what type of sorry community you live in cuz none of my friends are like that), the first point is none of your business. I think everyone has the right to look for what you call a “trophy wife”, and there’s no reason to not try to look for the best wife you can get. You do have a point by saying that if to a man a “trophy wife” means good looks and not good middos he’s shallow. But I hate these complaints. Not all men are like that at all, and as popa said, we think that some things that women do are crazy also. But you won’t find 50 threads on yeshiva world started by men that “boo-hoo! ALL women are air-heads!!” or whatever. Grow up.
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