health- your views are well known on this website but you acted like Chava imenu in exaggerating an issur and therefore all your views become suspect and invalid. you state that “ther halacha forbis a frum jew from joining because the force you to listen to kol isha”. the facts are very different.First of all, it is not even certain when kol isha is prohibited but even accepting the most radical interpretation- haven’t you followed the news? no one is forced to listen to kol isha and in the few isolated instances , the soldiers were excused.
You cannot use false facts to support your “shitta”