1. I don’t know which “most poskim” you are referring to, but the S”A is not among that group.
2. Don’t count Rishonim on your list of poskim.
3. You lose credibility when one of the “poskim” on your list who agrees with the Ran, is the Ran.
4. If the government of Israel is a “malchus shel risha’a”, so would every other government in the world. They are no worse to the Charedim then anyone else, and they are probably better because they give more money to them than any other government would.