Stay out of it, my friend. You have clearly already pre-judged the situation negatively by calling the girl a liar, when you know zero about her personal life. She could have already made plans for Friday night, or maybe when she goes out on Shabbos lunch, she doesn’t like to plan also for the night before. Maybe she does not know you well enough (despite knowing your wife)to want to be a guest in your home after only beginning to date your friend. Don’t be so quick to label her. You might be right, but more important, you are probably wrong and can mess this up for your friend.
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