Reply To: Shiduch help

I fully agree that a husband has to be able to provide for rent,health insurance,tuition,etc. However a lady has to be clear does she want a Ben torah or does she want a Lawyer or a Doctor or even better just say “significant” money.

I would bet that from those men who earn over 300K annually and who also try to learn daily, at best only 20% are real Bnei Torah who are Erhrlich,follow the Shulchan Oruch,etc. Big money can and does corrupt the majority of those who touch it-this is a fact. The Alter of Kelem would wash his hands whenever he would have to handle money.