Wow, oomis! Just cash in on all those points and you & all your daughters can retire!”
Halevai auf mir gezugt!!!!!! (That’s all the Yiddish I know).
Thanks, NOMTW and Curiosity.
“I fully agree that a husband has to be able to provide for rent,health insurance,tuition,etc. However a lady has to be clear does she want a Ben torah or does she want a Lawyer or a Doctor or even better just say “significant” money.”
There is no cotradiction in being both. Moshe Rabbeinu was the first leader of the Jewish nation, and he was also a Supreme Court Judge. Rambam was a physician. Rabbi Yehudah Hanasi was an extremely wealthy man. Were any of them corrupt? Did they follwo the Torah? Some of the finest Bnei Torah in my community are doctors and lawyers, and they regularly give shiurim in my neighborhood. Your comment wants further reflection, IMO.