Speaking about myself, I’m what they call an ‘old single’ and have earned the name as a quiet girl! I’ve gotten loads of names turned down, why? Simply because they won’t give me an extra chance to open up when they can accomplish it much quicker with someone a little more talkative.
The only difference between me and them is the time frame of opening up, it may take longer with me than a louder girl….
Is it really true those that are louder open up quicker and are more truthful? I have my strong doubts!
Shidduchim are in the hands of the one above, that’s what it all boils down to!!!