“Is she quiet” is such a loaded question. I once answered “no” (it was asked about a 35 year old gentleman) to this question and the follow up was “why does he have to be such a “tumler” (the verb for for someone causing a tumult, I guess). I guess if your not quiet, you must always be making a racket 🙂
I think people ask questions to ensure they don’t date someone rather than the opposite.