“Guys are looking to be ROFL starting on the first date and beyond. The Aidel, quiet type just isnt desired by guys, other than possibly the budding Roshei Yeshiva types.”
I find this statement quite puzzling. I wont debate its merits. I will instead ask you on what is this based? Have you polled those who are dating about their dating preferences? Shadchanim? Have you polled girls and found that “too quiet” is the oft stated reason why a shidduch is turned down?