“I cannot believe I read those words on a Jewish website. Pretty and thin!? Since when is that THE factor that makes or breaks a potential shidduch!?”
First of all, you should read the other comments before jumping to conclusions like that. Specifically one comment said about a quiet girl “There is nothing wrong with her, she is thin, pretty, nice to talk to, she has a job and is in school.”.
All I was saying is that I don’t believe that guys are turning down pretty, thin girls b/c they’re quiet. Since when is noise level “THE factor that makes or breaks a potential shidduch”? I was not saying that looks should be the most important thing to them, but yes, attraction is important.