Reply To: Who are the Quiet Girls Supposed To Marry?

sms,oo7, re: “if she’s quiet it just means she needs an extra date or two to open up, which ISN’T BAD! people need to look beyond what they see, it would take away a lot of pain for these girls (yes, it very painful wanting to be yourself and let out of your box, but you just cant bring yourself to do it cuz your too embarrassed. sounds childish, but its true)”

I think every Shadchan I know would agree with you!!! It’s that the boys check out the girls and if they hear any adjective resembling the word quiet, that girl won’t get a first date, never mind a second or third! It’s become about as damaging as the weight issue has been for years.