Interjection
In non chassidic dating where there are 6 or more dates before engagement and usually dates are 3 hours minimum sometimes 4-5 hours a certain level of “comfort” should be established. If that isnt happening then theres no chemistry and that can be a very strong indication to look elsewhere. Yes, like you said above the goals and values must be in sync but thats not enough to get engaged on. The personalities have to click.