I don’t get it. Against the yeshiva you have a complaint for not being understanding, but your frum boss, you don’t. Why?
Your assertion that you pay for 10 months of schooling is also wrong. Your tuition covers the school “year”. That the yeshiva allows you to pay it out over 10 or 12 months is not an indication of a monthly charge.
As for your social circle, surely it can be expanded to include teenagers, you don’t know any responsible teenagers?
Lastly, regarding this comment “And when one has a perk at a job it should not come at the expense of paying customers”, there are a number of legitimate responses a yeshiva might have, including
. Perhaps if we had more paying customers we’d be able to offer money instead of perks, to our employees.
. At what percentage of tuition paid, is one considered a paying, or non paying (depending on how you look at it) customer that their concerns should be met even if it creates a hardship (read more cost) for the yeshiva.
. Should there be 2 sets of policies, one for paying customers are one for those who are not?
Lastly, is it necessary to take off every isru chag or day of chol hamoed, perhaps you take succos and your sister takes pesach and you take turns watching each others kids.
Where there is a will, there’s a way (and of course, a lawyer).