Mdd: That’s not what I meant to imply, but when you put it that way it sounds bad. My point was it’s just a handshake. If he wants to think whatever he wants about a handshake that’s his problem. Someone could be the most Tznius person in the world and if a person wants to enjoy looking at her he will. We can’t and aren’t obligated to prevent Menuvalim from being Menuvalim. If a Menuval wants a handshake to be Derech Chibah, that’s not our concern. If she is attracted to him and shaking his hand is Derech Chibah for her, then it’s a problem.
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