PuhLease
“and that includes my ex husband, who beat me, and continues to lay hands on my children in anger…….And, for a “rav” to state with clarity that I may have done something to “deserve” that, is also completely uncalled for, and does not deserve the title that his smicha paper is written on”.
No one can deny that!!! I think most would agree with you.
But, for every “Rav” like that, there are many who are totally different.