Reply To: I need some perspective

Re-read my original post. I do not have the expectation that they should help me. I even said I agree with the mentality of not getting married and being supported by your parents. My issue is that we are really struggling right now, really struggling, and they are very wealthy and don’t ever help us even in the slightest. I didn’t ask for ways to finagle them into helping either.. I asked for coping methods because I have pretty negative feelings towards them right now and I don’t want to feel that way Farrocks.

Thanks everyone for your input!

Thanks left to write, I will try to think on those terms more often. I am bH blesses with a wonderful marriage and healthy child, I am not taking that for granted. I just know now that I am a mother that if my child was finding it hard to pay his or her bills etc i would help them no questions asked. Not because it is expected but because I love them.