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@more_2: “If you didn’t understand what he meant then ask him…”

I was nervous someone would ask that. I was trying to be brief so I kept the story short and didn’t fully explain.

I DID say straight out that I don’t understand and he basically repeated himself and I was really blunt and told him it makes no sense to me…I suppose he might have tried explaining more but he had someone waiting for him….so he excused himself and finished the conversation.

Figured the CR chevrah would understand this because it’s a concept that I have heard thrown around before and he looked at me like “why aren’t you understanding what I am saying”