OK, I think I am going to win on this one! When my daughter was dating over 12 years ago, someone asked where MY mom went to school. MY MOM, not only me and my daughter. I answered Aushwitz, any other questions??????? Nope, not even one. Needless to say, I didn’t pursue that shidduch either.
I have also been asked what color tablecloth the family uses on Shabbos, and if they use crystal glasses and china, etc. I say that I don’t answer stupid questions, and if they want their future daughter-in-law to set a beautiful table, she would most assuredly be thrilled to accept a set of Rosenthal china, sterling flatware, and waterford crystal from her mother-in-law.