Hi PBA.
An argument has to be about the same issue, and not another, new one. (an opinion on crowdsourcing versus marriage).
Sure you can try to find the truth and revise your view. That is admirable.
If you want to clarify, here is a reminder of the conversation:
1. I commented on the “system” in looking to become married, resulting in putting up resumes on facebook and dating over 200 girls in five years.
2. You replied to the effect that is not ‘marriage’ suppose to a public communal event?
While I am weak on yeshiva hock, what shychis does marriage being public have to do with criticizing the ‘means’ someone is employing to allegedly become married?
To me, that is not switching horses in midstream. That is just falling off the horse and landing in the water.
Anyway..hatzlacha to this guy. I hope the system works for him and he finds his beshert and does not need this “system”, and that in the meantime, he is not hurting people along the way.