shmendrick -“The opposite of a kal she’bikalim is one who collects chumros. The more chumoros one has the more he is choraid lidvar Hashem. One who acts lifnim mishuras hadin is also treated that way min hashomayim.”
I’m not going to get into this Chumra bit with you, but one thing I can tell you is anybody who is Megalsh Ponim B’Torah Shelo K’halacha, like you did, is NOT a Choraid Lidvar Hashem!