why should your shidduch be dependant on WHO your siblings married???? It makes me sick!
Ok who your parents and family are is understandable because sort of gives an idea on how you were raised etc…, but if the family your sibling married into is totally not your type why should you be judged majorly on that… It doesn’t represent who YOU are! Sick Sick and SICK!!!!
You say that who your parents and family are is understandable, because it gives an idea of how you were raised. So isn’t who your family married part of who they are?
The short answer though is, that in this process, we are doing way too much with way too little information. So anything that can help that information gap is helpful.