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i didn’t read everyone’s posts, so what i say might have been said before. i agree with coffeeaddict that that might be what she was saying, and i agree with middlepath. now i’m gonna say that whatever suffering you went through was meant for you. you cant compare one persons personal suffering to another. Hashem doesn’t give you more than you can deal with, and what He does give you in the way of challenges, He gives you the tools to deal with. when people suffer, it doesn’t make them feel better that someone has it worse. they just want their pain/suffering acknowledged. we are humans with human emotions. we can’t just become ok with our situation because someone has it worse. thats not the way we work (i’m speaking in general).