“Why is everyone shooting down the messenger?? The issue mentioned above by the original poster we all know happens”
No body is shooting down the messenger,the problem is that the original poster was assuming that when the waitress said “I usually get most of the guests here who keep kosher, and they’re usually pretty disgusting to me” it was 100% true. Ya we all know that there r some people out there w/ bad middos, but im willing to bet u that the waitress was exaggerating, and automatically accepting what she says as a fact is also wrong.