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popa_bar_abba
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Are you serious??? A) go out with the girl and then see if you like her personality and if you think she is attractive. Don’t base what you think is attractive on what you are supposed to think is attractive. Gosh.

That is a good argument, and I’d like to take the time to address it. Perhaps you’ll convince me, and perhaps I’ll convince you.

The problem with your theory is that of course I will think she is attractive–she will be a girl, and I have never seen one. But, once I see other girls, it is likely that I will not find her attractive at all anymore. Does that make sense?

I mean, imagine that you had never eaten cake, and you are given a piece of old stale pound cake from the bakery. You would eat it, and you would probably like it since it tastes pretty good compared to bread. But, then imagine that you are then given some good cake–you would realize that you don’t like the stale pound cake at all.

So aren’t I making a legitimate point?