arosem, When you speak about “outside influences”, try to understand where these influences come from. In the “Chasidishe” world (where u have minimal dating), girls do not read non jewish books, have access to a TV, go to movies or read the NY Times. So while they are exposed to outside influences to an extent, their exposure is to a much a lesser degree, therefore there is a slimmer chance of getting “burnt”.
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