After being an observer of the coffee room for a while, i had to respond to this topic. As someone who can testify that divorce IS the correct thing to do in certain situations, i have been there and done that.
Kasha- how can you say divorce is a dirty word? yes in this day and age, in the unfortunate society we live in there are many many issues that many spouses may have that are not known prior to the marriage, and the only option is to go out. As someone who put in over a year in a marriage to attempt to do everything i can to make it work, it did not help. Do i feel bad that i put in all that time, no. this way i can honestly give you my opinion now, that i have attempted to keep my marriage, and put in all efforts possible with much help and guidance and it was not ment to be. I am very happy now, being out of that marriage for over a year and i am a perfectly normal healthy girl, and if the world looks at me with a stigma, i will just continue to keep my head up high.