SJSinNYC
Member
Kasha, divorce shouldn’t be a dirty word at all. There are plenty of marriages that should disolve including:
1) Physical/emotional Abuse
2) Cheating
3) Lying before marriage
4) Drug and alcohol abuse”;;;;;;;;;;;;;
And in Crown Heights or Williamsburg how often does a case like this come up?
Very rarely unless you ARE talking about cases so mild, that they do not qualify as “bad marriages”.
“And probably plenty more. We should support people who get divorced not make it a dirty word.”
I challenge anyone, to find a qualified Rav who will agree with this statement about not making divorce a dirty word.
Often such things are falsly claimed by women (or their families in a few cases) who have ulterior motives for breaking up the marriage, like for example; Where they can cheat the husband out of his business or inheritance.
Sometimes it is because the women want to become secular and so they falsly claim abuse.
Sometimes they falsly claim abuse of the children when in fact nothing could be further from the truth.
The feminist controlled courts, almost always side with the women with no m,ore evidence then a false claim by the women.
There are many men (not necessasrily Jews, certainly not all or most are Jews, but some probably are)
sitting in jail for no other reason then women told outright bald faced lies, about the men supposedly ‘abusing them’ and the courts believed them just because of the feminist influence on all of sciety.
A couple of examples prove the point (even though they are nit marriage examples, the same ideas still apply) like;
The Twanna Brawley case, where Al Sharpton used a woman as a false witness to lie that cops had suoposedly abused her and wa dismissed only because of massive publicity on behalf of the cops that embarrassed the judge into dropping the case for lack of evidence.
Another case is the Duke Lacross case where the prosecutor went ahead forcing the case against the innocent boys, and would getting fired for prosecutorial miscinduct, again ONLY because of
months of nationwide publicising of the case on FOX News and Talk radio.
Cases of false charges in marriage are usually more private and les scritinized by conservative media so sometimes such cases can cause an innicent man ti be railroaded into jail on false charges.