What’s wrong with love before getting married if one is not blinded only by the chitzonius, but is on the same page on important issues as well?
There’s nothing wrong with that.
I’m asking out of curiosity of those who dated a longer time and also met often during the engagement period if you became conscious of negative character trait(s) (that every human possesses)of your future spouse and if you did, how did you deal with that issue?