Happy, I’m not going to deny that there can be a ripple efect.
Okay so to make sure there’s only joy and happiness the world all over in marriage here’s what’s going to happen
A couple gets married and realizes there’s no love in the marriage
Divorce
A couple is married 20 years and the love cools off
Divorce
A spouse has an hormonal change and needs more halacha l’maasah love and the other spouse can’t provide
Divorce
Each spouse has a different definition of love and can’t provide for the other whatever love they need
Divorce
Each spouse started out with the same definition of love and then their needs changed, but it becomes to complicated with the spouses changes and nobody can give the other what they need
Divorce
I could go on and on. There will be very few intact marriages if we go with such kind of reasonong.
People change. Love changes.
The problem here is that people think LIFE HAS TO BE PERFECT. They fold under when something is hard to handle.
“you can’t imagine how difficult it can be for 1 spouse to feel no emotional connection and love from the other”
I never said it’s easy, but a lot of people have it much, much worse. What should those paralyzed, but their minds are intact say? What should the childless say? Who said life is easy? We need to focus on doing what is right!
We live in a very spoiled generation. Es kimt zich mir! There’s no appreciation for life, for every breath we take, for all the good that we DO have!