happy123, there is no judging. We are talking theoretical, not any particular case. Furthermore, we are discussing the future, not so much the past. Meaning, encouraging the continuation and preservation of current and future Jewish marriages, and discouraging unnecessary and counterproductive divorces
that being said, I do not understand how you are encouraging the continuation of Jewish marriages,rather i think you are making statements as to why divorce is counterproductive and usually happens over petty things-which means you ARE judging the theoretical aspect of a divorce to be able to say those statements. (and not any particular case, in the past present or future)