A friend of mine is friendly with R’ Chaim Kanievsky shlit”a’s gabba, and he phoned him up on Purim (his birthday) to tell the gabai that he turned 18. The Gabba (possibly also drunk) told him NOT to tell R’ Chaim, because R’ Chaim holds that there is no heter to miss the ?? ????? ???? ?????.
This was on Purim, so i don’t think it is ???? ?????.