To Daas Yochid: thank you so much for all your comments! I agree 100%with all you said. Unfortunately, “ZAHAVA’S DAD” IS SO so naive Nd clueless about the dangers and reality of the Internet, that I don’t think any amount of evidence would convince him. My marriage is one of the many victims of this terrible malady. My husband is addicted, he would spend whole nights online, of course on seemingly innocent sites at first-news, info, banking, work, you name it. But when I did some searching of the history after one particularly long stretch of his, what I found shockedme to my core, I could never look at him the same. I begged him to get help, never saying what I found, only saying that he spends too much time on it. He refuses. He claims he’s totally in control. Now he takes his Internet access with him everywhere he goes and to the most inappropriate places… To Shull, to Shiur, to family get-togethers. It has destroyed our life together. And he’s in total denial. I would love to be able to email privately with you as I’m very interested in how you got help and from where. I desperately want my family to be back together the way we were before this calamity took hold of my husband. Again, thank you so much for all you wrote, for all the words of wisdom. May you be given the strength from Hakadosh Baruch Hu to continue in your praiseworthy fight, and may you reap a lot of reward for your Teshuva.
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