To Boobie- Hi! Are you still out there, or have you left in disgust? I’m pretty new here, and just stumbled on parts of this thread. I was so shocked i had to send you a note. I didn’t know people were allowed to post such mean, heartless comments! I have no idea why anyone would have called you a lurker- no idea what they meant. It seems you’re not sure either. I was especially upset by the poster who tried to blame you, by implying that the problem is that your husband doesn’t want to spend time with you, and you should figure out why! I think we can all agree that you have a big problem on your hands. And that the likelihood that you have a part in causing your husband’s internet addiction is slim to none. The fact that your family does not have a Rav makes matters more complicated, but, again, that’s not in your hands. You can hardly force your husband to have a Rav. That, by the way, is a problem in many homes, and you are not alone there either. There are no easy solutions. I can only tell you that lurker, poster, blogger or human being, whichever of those you are, my heart goes out to you. I hope and pray that you & your husband find a way to restore the peace & serenity of your home.
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