nechomah, i don’t think you started this. your last post is eloquently written and well explained.
health, i’m going to do a little experiment. i’m going to tell you the same thing but in 2 ways.
1-YOU MISSED THE BOAT!!!!!!!!!!! how can you possibly have not understood what i was trying to tell you. you know what your problem is? oh you do? good because i dont. but i know part of your problem. you read each post and then nitpick on each peice thereby missing the grand scheme of things. and what the heck do you mean that you say demeaning things on purpose? isnt there a thing called not hurting other’s feelings? you do know the first few times you insulted me i did take it personally. but then i realized you have something against the female gender so not so insulted anymore
2-health, i think you missed the point i was trying to make. it could be its my fault for this; i may not have said it clearly. personally i think it may be because the way you take some of the posts apart and comment on specific points rather than see it as a whole post. i’m still alittle confused as what you meant when you said “Sometimes they are meant to and sometimes not. But it’s all for good reason”. i don’t know when it is a good reason to insult others. one last note, i used to be very sensitive but over this year i have gained something i never really had, and thats self esteem. but thats from nursing school, not from growing a thick skin.
k now since you read both, which post would YOU rather have. you are free to choose.
(the point of this was just to show you there are 2 ways of saying basically the same thing. it just depends on how it is said)
just one last point, is this phenomena of women waiting found in all communities? i asked this previously but no one had an answer.