Torah613Torah
If you want to succeed at anything in life you need to work hard (unless you are brilliant and naturally highly talented in that area). I honestly think many people in the frum community are not prepared for life. They dont tell us that life will be hard and I think the way parents coddle their kids and support them financially in kollel until they decide (at 30 or so to start working) is very bad for many people and fools people into thinking life is smooth and easy. Rant being short circuited.