in the frum community
in some frum communities. I don’t have a single person in my circle who either does or could do that. Maybe you mean ‘in wealthy frum circles’ or ‘in tristate frum circles’.
Forgive me, I don’t mean to be picky but people have lots of negative perceptions about frumkeit that are not valid globally and when posted online I worry that the negativity will be reflected on Judaism itself.